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The Peanut Peanut or overcome those barriers that prevent you from succeeding

Are things not going well at work? Before you blame the tyrant of work or your boss, see if any of your attitudes are not hurting you.

time If you feel that the stars do not align work in your favor, it is time to review your personal characteristics. The good thing is that you can always change.

There are four most common defects that prevent you to be successful in the office: Shyness

• Pride
• Dispersion
• Little
Initiative

Shyness:

If you're in those with low profile, maybe it costs you exploit your potential. More likely is that to avoid exposing yourself, do not ask. Caution: this distortion can arise between what they want from you and your results. The best thing is that with a new set of work, you bring out all concerns and understand what they intend to do. Thus you will gain confidence when addressing the task.

On the other hand, the belief that everyone except you, have it is clear one of the ghosts that hinder you progress. The reality is that others also have their weaknesses.

Another thing to avoid is the paranoia. Often, by their own insecurities, we feel that the world and those around us, are plotting against us. But this sentiment, causing even more aislamiento.Mejor, socialize with grpo, because that is the first step to integrate into the company. A tip: when you arrive at lunchtime, join the collective table instead of excuses and go do some errands.

Pride:

You may have worked hard to keep your confidence high but there is a thin line between that and pride. If you spend the other way, you'll be in trouble. So you will not be open to learning and it'll be generating rejection in those around you. You must be prepared to unlearn some things and put on the garb of humility. try to make the exercise of reason and not always have the front desapegate label "I have-response-for-all."

Another issue is learning to listen without making judgments anticipatory. Reinterpret what they say is the best way for communication oiled. As advisable to minimize the judgments about the person before us and not try to tell us what we want to hear.

best thing is to understand that in organizations, but we do not like change queen, which is synonymous evolution. It's much smarter to be alert to new needs and circumstances that stubbornly defend a project to be abandoned.

Dispesión

Sos "which, while chatting with her boy-mail reply to a head, checked the time on the web for the weekend , attend the phone and in turn, rise up to serve coffee? Pará, and it is difficult for you to achieve your goals. It's time to organize your actions and reassure your head. Desdoblarte in dozens of places and functions entails a major adrenaline rush. Try downloading, for example, playing sports.

At work, the need to be a thousand prevents you meet all objectives, get tired and fall behind twice daily work. It does this: Close the ten windows and restricted Internet chat with friends to certain times of day.

also puts into practice a mechanism work better organized. For example, no e-mails acumles, better get used to answer and define its destination at the same time opening.

Little Initiative

"You're early, you stay after hours and always live up to what you call your boss? Not bad, but not enough. In fact, the company is interested in your ideas. Limit yourself to obey orders without generating proposals will become a sponge, a major recipient of orders, but at the same time, an employee who does not stand out. Make the exercise of other forms of address rethink your routine.

is to find and encourage you to try new ways of doing business as usual. Above all, what is not working. So you will add value to your work in a unique way, because you have your label. It is always easier to have a proactive if one likes his job. At least for a while, play to feel the owner of the company and note what changes would you make in day to day. After evaluating what things can be put into practice and bring it up.

10 Keys to Success

Takes note of the keys that will make it easier success: Commit

• what you do
• proactive deictic
• Seguí capacitandote
• Teamwork Keep a positive attitude to any situation
• Stay up
• open to learning good listening
• Focus on objectives
raised
• Be flexible to adapt to changes
• remains open to innovation.

Vos you can

Maybe the company you work for is not the best, your boss may be demanding, but the only thing salvation is in what place and what attitude we stand before the problems and, inclso, with the successes. It is always possible to correct bad habits and put into action new models of doing and thinking things. Besides personal change generates a change in our surroundings.

Tené

mind that humor is a great tool to rise above a disadvantage. Keep a positive attitude to conflict is an essential tool.

Time to move!

Extracted from: Argentina Cosmopolitan Magazine Issue No. 147 November 2008